It's my mom's birthday today. Though I am more grateful for her everyday than I can really express, I figured today would be a good day to try. First off, she is so strong. I can't even imagine how hard it must have been to raise two little kids on alone (with wonderful help from friends and family) and accomplish all that she has. She put herself through school to get a better job and be able to support us. Honestly, I can't really say that I wanted for anything. She did everything thing she could, I think, to make us feel the best that we could. We got to go school clothes shopping every year and get nice stuff, we went on vacations and so many other things. I know my brother and I took a lot of it for granted but we always knew how good she was to us and still is.
She taught us good principles and morals but never too strict. I've always been so grateful at the trust she put in us because I never wanted to ruin that. I'm still amazed when I think of the freedom we had. Sure there were rules, but nothing out of the ordinary and if we made mistakes there were consequences but we were pretty good kids on the whole. Other than the constant fighting. I don't know how she handled that day in and day out with me and my brother but I always felt comforted when she got home.
In my adult life I've definitely strayed from the beliefs I was taught but she was always there to talk to and reassure me. I never felt judged or disappointed in. When my brother and I have needed her she has always been there to help us out whether financially or emotionally. She is one of my bestest friends. I love her so much. Still in my late twenties she takes care of me and I feel safe like when I was little. I love our talks and when we laugh together, that is seriously the best thing. I love that we hold hands and cuddle (somewhat especially because it drives my brother nuts) I can't even imagine what it could be like to not have her around, a phone call away. It's a nightmare I have often.
I've barely even touched on all the things I am grateful for, but mostly I'm just grateful that she is in my life. That she was chosen to be my mother. I thank God all the time for that. She is my rock. Love you Mom. Happy Birthday!
3 comments:
What a sweet tribute to your mom!
Wow, thanks, Cassie. You made my irthday ven better. I've always felt so blessed to have such great kids. Now I'd better go get a tissue.
I've always been grateful she was your mom, too. That meant you would be part of our family. She is quite remarkable. I don't think I could have raised 2 kids by myself.
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